Intentional Living Whack-A-Mole

The living with intention concept is popping up madly in my day-to-day. Like in that game, "Whack-A-Mole". I try to thwack it down, but the "pay attention to me" and this alternative, but necessary way to live is wagging a finger in my face refusing to be ignored. Starting the Path to Intentional Living The … Continue reading Intentional Living Whack-A-Mole

Stumbling Into the Past in Kyoto

IMHO, the entire country of Japan should go ahead and be declared as a UNESCO World Heritage Site. Kyoto is my third stop in Japan and although Tokyo and Hiroshima blows the doors off anything I've seen in the world, Kyoto shot itself into the stratosphere last night. Japan is experiencing a deadly heatwave, so … Continue reading Stumbling Into the Past in Kyoto

The Flow of Anger

When I landed a customer facing job at a major American airline, I wasn't prepared to learn as much about anger as I did. Boy, was I surprised (but not too) that the airline's index of recurrent training included the psychology of anger and how to manage the emotion. To add insult to injury, I … Continue reading The Flow of Anger

What Happened When I Deleted My Social Media Apps…

Scrolling through Facebook. Scrolling through Instagram. Scrolling through Twitter. Seeing far too many people spending more time showcasing their lives rather than actually living them. Every twenty five minutes, I waste ten minutes (at the minimum) scrolling. All day long. And sometimes in the middle of the night. I admit it. I'm guilty. I fell … Continue reading What Happened When I Deleted My Social Media Apps…

Brutal Barbarism

Yesterday, I walked out of my divorce workshop with Legal Aid completely numb. I went through the machinations of the help session and then that was it. A 15-year relationship simply rubbed away with a notary's signature. On the drive home, while I was processing that little death, I ruminated on the three people on … Continue reading Brutal Barbarism

Here, Take a Swig of This

At that moment, I was here, "Wow, can I screw up this parenting thing any more?" Out of the blue, (well, not entirely out of the blue) I get a text from an old friend who was reflecting back to a thing that happened years ago. She said, "I'll never forget," [that I said], "take … Continue reading Here, Take a Swig of This

Good Things and Shitty Things

I could've said, "the good with the bad". Whatever. "Good Things and Shitty Things" is more funny and the good with the bad is played out. I have many good things happening in my life, but I also have a healthy smattering of shitty things dotted throughout too. Without the shitty things, I wouldn't appreciate … Continue reading Good Things and Shitty Things