Here, Take a Swig of This

At that moment, I was here, “Wow, can I screw up this parenting thing any more?” Out of the blue, (well, not entirely out of the blue) I get a text from an old friend who was reflecting back to a thing that happened years ago. She said, “I’ll never forget,” [that I said], “takeContinue reading “Here, Take a Swig of This”

Good Things and Shitty Things

I could’ve said, “the good with the bad”. Whatever. “Good Things and Shitty Things” is more funny and the good with the bad is played out. I have many good things happening in my life, but I also have a healthy smattering of shitty things dotted throughout too. Without the shitty things, I wouldn’t appreciateContinue reading “Good Things and Shitty Things”

What, no rainbows?

What, no rainbows?I was hoping to wake up on this first day of 2019 with a smile, rainbows shooting through the window and sprays of confetti, (hooray, it’s a new year. whoo-hoo, 365 days to do it right) but instead I woke up screaming and crying from a nightmare saddled with a crick in myContinue reading “What, no rainbows?”

“Joy”eux Noël

Think of moments of past, present and anticipatory joy. The barely containable joy. The kind of joy that finds you grinning from ear to ear. Bubbling inside. The cusp of orgasm happy. The kind of joy that occasionally shows up and in my case is synonymous with experiences like the stretching room of the HauntedContinue reading ““Joy”eux Noël”

Smashing the Glass Ceiling

Last week, I dropped by my SIL’s office for birthday hugs. During the mini-celebration, SIL mentioned she had something in the car for me, so we walked outside together and she handed me two articles from wealth management.com. This event is good for two reasons.1. A financial adviser likes my blog. Win. 2. I got aContinue reading “Smashing the Glass Ceiling”

Learning to say, “No”

Over Thanksgiving, my daughter was home from uni and she asked me to go somewhere and do/buy something. I don’t exactly recall where she wanted to go or what it was she wanted to do, but I remember my reply. My reply was a big, loud (slightly hesitant) “No.” Most of the time, she getsContinue reading “Learning to say, “No””

Step Away from Black Friday

Hey, You! This Friday. Before you step out to your car or bus or train…Stop for a second.  Ask Yourself… Do I need it? Do they need it? Is what I think I need worth fighting the traffic? Is it worth driving all over parking lots or up and down streets searching for a parkingContinue reading “Step Away from Black Friday”

Brush with the Dalai Lama

My younger self read a book called, “The Tibetan Book of the Dead”.  At the time, I was interested in reincarnation and death, (Whatever. Isn’t everyone curious about how we are going to exit?) so I hunted the book down and sat in my room and read it. It was a grueling slog of aContinue reading “Brush with the Dalai Lama”

Marrying Myself

November 15, 2018 (maybe the 16th…it’s late or early) “You complete me” are three powerful words that countless people hang their hopes on. And it couldn’t be more off-base in regards to relationship/partnership. Nothing external will make me whole or complete. No partner, no marriage, no work and no material things. It took me decadesContinue reading “Marrying Myself”

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