Brutal Barbarism

Yesterday, I walked out of my divorce workshop with Legal Aid completely numb. I went through the machinations of the help session and then that was it. A 15-year relationship simply rubbed away with a notary's signature. On the drive home, while I was processing that little death, I ruminated on the three people on … Continue reading Brutal Barbarism

Smashing the Glass Ceiling

Last week, I dropped by my SIL's office for birthday hugs. During the mini-celebration, SIL mentioned she had something in the car for me, so we walked outside together and she handed me two articles from wealth management.com. This event is good for two reasons.1. A financial adviser likes my blog. Win. 2. I got a … Continue reading Smashing the Glass Ceiling

Marrying Myself

November 15, 2018 (maybe the 16th...it's late or early) "You complete me" are three powerful words that countless people hang their hopes on. And it couldn't be more off-base in regards to relationship/partnership. Nothing external will make me whole or complete. No partner, no marriage, no work and no material things. It took me decades … Continue reading Marrying Myself

In-Between

The "In-Between" ~ An Explanation of how so many people ages 38-55 don't have enough money saved for retirement Baby Boomer  <HERE IS WHERE WE ARE> Millennial I'm not a baby boomer with a defined, livable pension fund and I'm not a millennial forced to become close friends with "necessity is the mother of invention" … Continue reading In-Between

Better off than I thought

November 13, 2018 Jees, after researching the percentage of women who are financially devastated after divorce and shuffling through some case studies, I'm almost embarrassed to admit that I'm not doing so bad after all. According to a report by a group of sociologists from Bowling Green, "27% of divorced, older women live in poverty, … Continue reading Better off than I thought

Shades of Eat, Pray, Love

November 12, 2018 Today, I feel like Elizabeth Gilbert in the novel, "Eat, Pray, Love"  and I'm about to embark on an exciting, new life chapter. If you haven't read "Eat, Pray, Love" then perhaps open a new tab and quickly wiki  to catch up with me or be a maverick and roll with context … Continue reading Shades of Eat, Pray, Love